Who seem to have the easiest lives

        Do you think you birth order whould give you a easiest lives? think the younger have a more relaxed life. But I think that the middle children have the easiest lives. Obviously, the oldest children have the most difficult lives. They are the first child in the family. Parents are pay more attention to them. And new parents need time to adjust the lifestyle with have a new family memmber. And the younger is last hope for parents, so I think the middle children is the easiest children to live.

How accurate is the author's description of your birth order?

The article " How your Birth Order Influences your Life Adjustment" by Lucile K. Forer talks about people's birth order could influences people's life. In each family, following the family members changed, children and adults will change their mind to adjust the lifestyle. And children in different position would have different relationship with parents. Also, different position will influences children's personality that become capable or dependently.   The author's description accurate of my birth order. The following is my reason.

He said "The older or oldest child's emphasis upon being 'parental' offers him both advantages and problems." I think my oldest brother is like that. He showed his power of oldest child. Then he leader me and my little brother to listening to him. If my parents are not there, we need to follow him. Otherwise, he protected us when we need him.

He said "The middle child comes to think of himself as sometimes better able to do things than other people because he is usually capable than his younger sibling or siblings." I'm the middle child. Sometimes I think about that I have able to help my little brother. Because he is smaller than me. I need to take care him. When I think about this, I would feel I'm independently. 

He said "The later children enjoy many advantage as a result of having more relaxed parents." Because parents had first child, they had experience about take care child. And each first time people pay more attention to doing things. The later child will be more free. I think my oldest brother is under stress. My parents is more strict with him. My little brother and me is more relaxed.  But I do not deny that is because we had done every thing well.

Birth Order

My name is funny Flora, I am the middle child. I have two brothers. One is older than me, another one is younger. My older brother like a leader. He want to control me and my little brother. But he also protect us. He often tells me don't do this, don't do that. However he always buys some gifts for us that use his salary. He think he has responsibility to take care me and little brother, because he is the oldest. He is capable.

I also want to leader my little brother and take him. Sometimes, I don't study hard. But I tell him have to study hard. I think I am independent, because I have two brothers that I can ask for help. When I have trouble I always want to call them to help me.

My little is flexible and smart. He is fast learner and has good memory. We all believe him will take highest education in our family. But he can't take care himself well (maybe just we think this, he doesn't think so). We are think he is a baby. We all love him.